Visual and Written Communication

 

I haven’t written much in recent days. Lately, I’ve preferred to say things through images, and I’ve added many photos on my website and my Facebook page. People seem to like it more, too. It’s had a ten times higher response than this travel writing journal, and that’s fine with me. This journal is more personal anyway – talking about personal experiences and places and people.

I probably won’t ‘share’ this site so much as the other.

People seem to really enjoy my photos, so I don’t feel too bad putting them out there in front of people’s eyes. People can interpret and enjoy the imagery with just a glance. It’s easier to enjoy it than it is to create it. No matter how long it took me to fly to that location, climb the mountain, or wait for the sunrise, it only takes a moment for the spectator to see every pixel of color the picture has to offer.

It is a truly rare picture that gives further or different meanings upon multiple viewings.

Writing, however, takes a little more work to enjoy. It is in ways easier and more difficult to create. Your body need not leave home to write, but your mind must. Your imagination must travel and meet new people.

Writing is a more specific and honest, as well. It has opinions, shades, and meanings that take effort for people to see. Unless we’re talking Garfield and comic strips, it takes focus and thought to enjoy someone’s writing.

So there you have it. Some random thoughts and, in a way, an explanation as to why I haven’t said much here. And if you read this and felt cheated, just go over here: arnesonfoto.com and it will make it all better.

Return to Cambodia: Part 1

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This was the first time I’d flown into Cambodia.

Every time before, I had taken a bumpy bus down from Thailand and crossed the corrupt, casino-filled border at Poipet. Last year, you might remember, I had a memorable experience at the border. I am happy to report there wasn’t a repeat of that incident. This time, I bypassed Bangkok and Thailand altogether by flying right from Hyderabad, India to Siem Reap. Solveig and I left India with some very new and different perspectives on India, and as fun as that short visit was, it was an absolute joy to be back in our second home of Cambodia.

We stepped off the plane into a thick cloud of hot.

Norway was cold. India was warmer. Cambodia was Cambodia. And I think I’ll be fine not wearing socks for the next 4 months.

We spent the first week settling into our new residences (me with my sister, and Solveig with her Cambodian friend, Sopheap). My “settling in” was easy. I put my bag in my room. Solveig had an apartment to clean and organize… and multitudes of cockroaches to kill. Her apartment is below ours, and occasionally I still hear a quick shriek come from down below.

Cambodia2012-6616smallBethany and I made a quick trip to Phnom Penh to retrieve her new passport and to get new pages for mine. The stories our passports could tell… I really like to flip through it once in awhile and look back at the places I was blessed to go and see. While in Phnom Penh, I also had a chance to visit a children’s home, Children of Hope, and take photos for an upcoming article for InspireAFire.com. The kids were beautiful and happy, and it was nice to take some more joyful pictures to contrast the normal “shocker” poverty photos we always see. As bad as things are, God is still using people to bring change. Thanks to Millie Carson for showing us around!

Speaking of photos… I was honored to be made Artist of the Month on that site. You can check that out here… Artist of the Month: Casey Arneson with Captured by Compassion

When I returned, English teaching began in earnest. Two classes this time – one at the monastery with the monks and temple boys, and one in the evenings with a group of students of all ages. In addition, I started teaching guitar to four other students. Solveig helps with the evening English class, and teaches French to her own class.

Cambodia2012-6696bOn Saturdays, we open our house to hold a bible study/house fellowship. It’s been amazing, with about a dozen Khmer coming and sharing meals, praising God, and studying together.

Through all this, I have felt overly blessed in so many ways.

First, I’m with Bethany again. Last year, I spent nearly 6 months straight with her, and we grew closer together than ever before. Second, I’m spending so much quality time with Solveig. Not just little ‘dates’ or watching a movie together… we’re actually working together, living day to day life together with Bethany and Sopheap, and getting to know each other more and more. Our relationship’s story is a good one, and I hope to address it a bit more in the next blog. There might be a ring involved…

Thanks for reading, and I hope you’ll pray for us.

Incredible Indian Wedding

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If I stopped now and did nothing else for the next 10 months, this year would still already be one of the most memorable of my life.

I’ve spent a time building relationships in Norway with new friends and with my significant other and her family, worked on three photo projects in Norway, and traveled to India to shoot a wedding as part of Captured by Compassion – raising money for amazing causes. Part of me is a little bit proud of these things, but all I need to do is remember that my God is really nice to me and these are His dreams for my life. My own dreams were never this good. And if I come across as proud, it will not be a pride in myself.

IndiaWeddingSmall-34There are many better photographers than me. So why did I have the opportunity to go to India and do photography work there? I believe God opened a door for me because I’ve decided to make myself available. I’ll make my boast in Him.

So about that India wedding. What an experience. First, the difficulties… the wedding day was moved up on me, moved to the day after Solveig and I arrived. What’s difficult about that, you ask? Well, we arrived off off nearly 50 hours of taxis , trains, buses, airports, and airplanes. Stavanger to Kristiansand to Oslo to London to Mumbai to Hyderabad. It was a miracle that we could walk and get our luggage up the stairs to the apartment after all that. And we arrived at 11 p.m., thinking to ourselves, “okay – let’s just drop our stuff, find our beds, and go to sleep.”

I needed to be up at 7 a.m. to be prepared for the wedding and preparation shots.

 

IndiaWeddingSmall-33But bedtime had to wait. The Marri family, from the groom’s side, arrived for a surprise party that lasted until 1 in the morning. During which time I was expected to take pictures… at the time, it was annoying to my exhausted body. But then the family won me over with their friendliness and my curiosity for their different culture.

I managed to get to sleep around 2 a.m., got up at 7 a.m., and started shooting for the next 12 hours. I fought jet lag, ran on wedding adrenaline and by ignoring my complaining body.

It had it’s similarities to the west, as it was a Christian, non-arranged marriage. Normally those aren’t the case. So while there was some familiar territory, I still had a lot of things to get used to. Most Indian people that I met were very direct and very open about what they thought and what they wanted from you. They might “ask” you to do something in a way that sounds more like a forceful order to the Western ear. But aside from that, we experienced very friendly greetings and open hearts even when they didn’t understand our culture.

We stayed in an apartment that Sarah and Albert provided for visiting family and friends, and it was a joyous time spent with the Wimbley and Marri families.

Solveig and I did a little sight-seeing, but we were only in Hyderabad for 7 days, so not too many photos to share. Here’s a couple, though, from a Muslim monument called Charminar and the surrounding area.

God bless, thanks for reading!

Check out more pictures of Hyderabad here: Hyderabad

And of the wedding here: Albert and Sarah

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Into India: A Challenge and a Miracle

Viva La Vida – from our concert raising money for several Cambodia ministries

 

 

First, I wanted to share this video. We had two mini-concerts here in Stavanger raising money for Cambodia ministries, and it was a great evening with some talented lady musicians (who I was privileged to perform with).

Now onto my subject…

I’ve been to my share of countries in the last year, and was blessed to be able to check some of my list off.

But one that I’ve always wanted to visit was India. It has just about everything that makes a country interesting. Rich culture and history, varied landscape and people groups, unique and (in my opinion) delicious food.

And due to my wedding photography work for Captured by Compassion, I’m finally getting to go there next week. I’ll photograph a wedding, and the money goes directly to an orphanage in Uganda and to Shevet Achim, a medical charity for children with heart defects in the Middle East. It’s exciting to be able to travel for a good cause, and though this year is a busy one for me, I’m hoping more and more couples will take advantage of this way to get great wedding photos and make a difference at the same time.

That’s the positive side of the upcoming trip, and honestly, it’s worth all of the following frustration I’d like to vent… India has, of course, problems – such as poverty and the caste system.

One problem I didn’t know about, however, was it’s tourism bureaucracy.

Imagine you want to visit India. Be a tourist, see the Taj Mahal, eat the food… spend your money there. You’d think India would want you to come. Tourism is good for the economy, right?

Then why, oh why, does India have the worst system of gaining entrance to their country that I have yet to see? I doubt it has anything to do with being careful of terrorism, because I’ve been through Israel and Palestine with far less hassle. No matter who you are, India puts you through a tortuous process to get your entry visa. If it doesn’t meet their precise standards on an imprecise form, it gets held up, costs you more money, or worse, it costs you time. And what if the clock is ticking towards the day you need to leave? Well, you’re in suspense for weeks at a time.

I could go into the details, but really, I’m just ranting because it was a frustrating process.

Then I remember I’m going for a good cause, and it will be an experience to remember. It’s a blessing to go – but I advise anyone who may go in the future to be aware and be careful when applying for your visa. Be exact, be perfect, and be early (but not too early, because then there are all sorts of other problems).

Ultimately, the important thing is this: I received my visa just in time before I left the United States, and my girlfriend from Norway received hers with no time to spare. If you knew the process and the issues involved, you might agree with me when I say it was a miracle and I praise God that He took care of us. There was a lot at stake, but we bought the train tickets in faith, the plane tickets in faith, and everything has come together last minute.

We leave Norway on Wednesday, so please pray for us and our travels. After India, I’m sure Cambodia will provide more challenges. Thank you for your support and prayers!

A Year of Changes

Before I can go into answering “Why are you in Norway?” and “What is Captured by Compassion?”, I thought I’d do a recap.

IMG_0086Last year was life-changing for me to the point that I don’t recognize myself one year later. Maybe I haven’t changed much to my friends, or from the persona you see at church, but on the inside I feel a great shift has taken place. The year began in uncertainty as I resigned my position at the newspaper for which I had worked the last 5 years. It was a decision that took six months to make and six more months to accomplish. My fear of losing my security was slowly overcome and with God’s help I headed out into travel, ministry, photography, and beyond.

So in that frame of mind, this was the beginning of the blog last year, before leaving Montana for 4 months of world traveling.

God made it possible to leave, and there were so many blessings on that happened on the first half of the journey that I often forget that it nearly ended in disaster. But we missed the earthquake, got my camera gear back, and made it to Cambodia. A huge sigh of relief, right?

Then on my first day in Cambodia, I met a young woman who was passionate about God and about people. I’m not going to tell the story on this blog, but feel free to ask me about it sometime. I like to tell it.

Three months in Cambodia were filled with experiences I’ll never forget and forever be thankful for. God opened doors to serve with several ministries and to teach English, and He made me do alot of thinking.

Then God really worked me over on the issue of poverty.

NorwayBeachWalk-20I left Cambodia with a lot to digest, spiritually and mentally. Back in Montana, I started doing wedding photoshoots again, this time with the purpose of supporting an orphanage in Uganda, and a medical ministry in Jerusalem. This led to weddings across three states – Montana, Minnesota, and Illinois. In between them, I drove a taxi for some extra income and some great chances to pray with people. I was ecstatic to have a chance to put on two photo exhibitions, as well – one in the local area, and one in Chicago.

Then I had a date in Paris, and a visit to a special someone in Norway… ahem.

Back in Montana, with wedding season slowing down, I moved my stuff back to Eureka and prepared for where I now believed God was taking me… an even greater year of adventure, ministry, and surprises.

And so far, I haven’t been disappointed. I’ve been in Norway for the last 3 weeks, celebrating Christmas and New Year, and getting ready for India and Cambodia.

My next blog will elaborate on what’s been going on in Norway, and what’s about to happen in India.

Thanks for reading, be blessed!

Ending the Long Silence

It’s been a long time since I posted here, but I will again be posting to this blog.

AngkorWatClass-6352panBI have the privilege to return to Cambodia for volunteer work with various ministries there, and I intend to chronicle whatever parts of this trip that God highlights. I hope to make active, compassionate service the top priority while in Cambodia and just show real love to people – in practical and spiritual ways.

To those who previously read these blogs, thanks for your time and interest… and I hope you’ll find some inspiring and challenging thoughts ahead as I navigate Norway, India, Cambodia, and Thailand over the next 5 months.

My next post will be an update on the last year and the amazing things that happened after this blog went silent.
Thanks for reading.

Post-Awesome-Experience Disorder

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The problem with eating a delicious ice cream cone is that, eventually, it’s gone.

I eat slowly. Not just ice cream, but any food I enjoy, as friends can attest to. I like to savor the experience and make it last.

When it is finally gone, you need to be full and satisfied. Or else you’ll look over at someone else’s ice cream cone and be all like, ‘mmmmm… ice cream…’

So. I’m back in the USA. The ice cream is gone, the adventure is over, and I’m here.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice being back and seeing family and friends and acquaintances. Seeing mountains has done my heart good, and it’s nice to enjoy taking a hot shower again, rather than constantly being a hot shower of sweat. Milk tastes better here. Barbecue sauce and ranch dressing are available here. The beds are more comfortable.

Yes, the material benefits are definitely there.

But honestly, I’ve been dealing with slight off-and-on depression after the return. I don’t think it’s culture shock… more like experience shock. Like coming down off of a four month long amusement park roller coaster ride, getting on a bus, and going home.GlacierJune-7316

Not that Cambodia or New Zealand or Thailand were amusement parks, far from it. There was a lot of work involved, some stepping out in faith, and things didn’t always turn out how I wanted them to.

But the whole experience… it was something to savor.

Now, my future plans are the priority. And procrastination comes easy, since making life-changing decisions isn’t my strong point. So here I am, listening for God’s voice in all of this, and wondering where I will be in several months.

The vision (which I still haven’t talked about here) is hopefully taking a little more form. I hope I can announce it before too long.

In the meantime… enjoy some photos from the return to the beautiful state of Montana! All of my photos are available as prints, by the way…

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The End of the Journey

And so, the journey draws to a close.

4 months, 7 countries,10,000 photos, dozens of friends, a class of monks, and one amazing sister.

AngkorWatClass-6441Travel by plane, taxi, sky train, subway, motorcycle, ferry, boat, tuk tuk, rental car (on the left-hand side of the road), hang glider, bicycle, and some kind of weird tractor-thing.

Best things I’ve eaten: Heaps of Indian, Thai, Khmer, many mangos, mangostein, Bethany’s homecooking, sushi, and too much to mention.

Worst things I’ve eaten: Congealed pig blood soup (Cambodia) and Vegi-mite (New Zealand)

Strangest things I’ve eaten: Fried tarantula, barbecued dog, “brohak” (Khmer fish cheese), crickets, ants, fried frogs on a stick. And Vegi-mite.

Looking back, I can hardly believe all that happened. Some things will remain secrets, things God used to affect or strengthen me.

Or humble me. He seems especially good at that.

Other experiences I have yet to share and probably will when you invite me over for dinner to hang out and catch up. Subtle, aren’t I?IMG_3158

More than the places themselves, more than the food, and more than the stamps on a passport, I have enjoyed spending 6 months in my sister’s company. Two months when she visited the U.S., and these last four when I met her and went gallivanting all over the place.

She’s remarkable, you know? And her brand new Discipleship School is about to start, praise God, and it was overflowing with applications and excited Cambodian young men and women who are going to change the world.

Speaking of young Cambodians, I got to know a few.

No matter where you find it on Earth, “passion” is a beautiful thing – especially when it is given over to Christ and turned with love upon its community. I saw that passion in several I became friends with and saw it growing in others.

My passion, on my own, seems to wax and wane… but I find it growing when I’m around such people. And that only makes it harder to leave.

I also parted ways with others that I desperately wanted to get to know better. Three months enough time to know that much, but was insufficient time to reach the potential of relationship. I can only pray that God allows our paths to cross again.

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I knew I can’t travel or serve in Cambodia forever. I’m not missionary in the same sense as my sister. God has given me a vision, I believe, and when I get back I will be working toward that. More details on that before long.

At the moment, I’m sitting in Seoul, South Korea, with about 9 hours of time to wait and reflect. These memories flit through my mind and occasionally make me smile, laugh, annoyed, a little depressed, a little lonely… I miss my constant companion of the last 4 months.

I may have to visit Cambodia more often.

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Success Isn’t Always Success

“Greater success is achieved by having greater desires.”

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As the prophecies foretold, I am returning… to the United States.

Only two weeks separate me from a bus to Bangkok and a long flight via South Korea and Seattle.

The thought of going back, to be honest, terrifies me.

Just kidding. The thing that scares is really the same thing that scares most people. The unknown. Cambodia was new and unknown, but I didn’t have expectations and goals to accomplish here. It wasn’t “vacation” per se, especially since I got roped into all kinds of work and ministry while I was here, but when I arrived I didn’t have a great vision.

It was all about exploring and education. Learning about people, and learning about God.

Going back to the US of A, I have more of a vision – an idea. It’s an idea that could help people, change lives, and be my unique expression of “love thy neighbor.”

It’s a dream, and no one likes it when dreams don’t come true.

The fear of failure crawls beneath your skin, trying to discourage and make you hesitate. For me, I get this tightness in my chest when I think of my dream. It sounds so good – but can I make it work? The end result must be worth it, and I know I can’t do it alone.

In theory, it looks like it will work. But theory is not practice, and if we’re relying on my performance, the chances of its success just went down.

Thankfully, I’m only afraid until I remember that I don’t have to worry – because I don’t have to make it work. If it’s God’s dream for me, He will help me out. If I abide in Christ, there will be fruit.

I am nothing on my own. My faith has room to grow. My mind has more renewing to do.

But I am willing, and my mind will be renewed more and more, and my faith is growing.

I’m also learning that being “willing” also means being willing to try and fail. In a world of Charlie Sheen and “winning” being the proud cry of the day, I find myself believing that success is a bad thing if you succeed in the wrong thing.

Greater success is achieved by having greater desires. What are the greatest desires available to us? Love the Lord your God, and love your neighbor as yourself.

That’s the success I’m looking for.

De-sensitized – Who Is My Neighbor?

If you want just the highlights from the last couple weeks, here they are:

Jesus. Prayer. Orphans. AIDS/HIV. Tuberculosis. Extreme Poverty. Books.

If you want the full story, I’ll start from the end of the list and work backwards to ease into it.

The last several weeks have been a blur of books. I’ve read The End of Poverty, by Jeff Sachs, Compelled by Love, by Heidi Baker, Is That Really You, God? by Loren Cunningham, Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia by Jean Sasson, and The Scarlet Pimpernel, to satisfy my need for fiction. I’m almost finished with Love Has a Face, which is very similar to Compelled by Love, but with a different author (both are about orphanages in sub-Saharan Africa… and God’s love).

I hope I don’t bore you by mentioning the books, but the reason I bring it up is because my thought life seems to be spinning around a dual issue: physical and spiritual poverty. My thoughts were only confirmed and added to by the recent trip out into rural Cambodia with Bethany’s staff outreach in Oddar Mean-Chey.

We stayed at Christian orphanage outside the village for two days, and we went on visits to the village to walk around with a local pastor and share about Jesus with villagers. Well, my Khmer speaking ability limited me to sharing about “Hello, how are you?”, but I backed up the others in prayer.

We then went to Poi Pet, on the border of Thailand. I renewed my Visa while I was there, which is a story all its own, and we went with a woman from church there to visit the patients in a health clinic. Specifically, we were visiting and praying with AIDS/HIV and TB patients.

I know many of you enjoy the pictures I’ve shared on my travels, but I didn’t take pictures this time.

I encourage you to see it for yourself, someday.

That visit finally gave a face to what I’ve read about and seen in the news: real, desperate suffering and physical poverty. When I say physical poverty, I don’t mean the sometimes self-induced, mostly relative poverty of the Western world. I mean the kind of poverty that leaves about 1.7 billion people half-starved on a regular basis (extreme, or “absolute poverty” is currently measured at someone living on under $1.25/day).

I think it’s time we all recognized that we are now a global neighborhood. Less than 24 hours of air travel will get you just about anywhere on the planet. Things like cell phones, Facebook, and Skype now allow billions of people to connect within seconds. You could literally be standing in an African village or the slums of India in a day or two after reading this post, if you really wanted to.

How does “love thy neighbor” look in a world where everyone is now your neighbor?

That’s a question I’ve been pondering. Whether we like it or not, every one of us must choose which role we play in the story of the Good Samaritan.

Despite the ability to connect and become a part of the lives of people in virtually any nation, we maintain our distance for a number of reasons. Language, cultural, religious, and financial barriers give us some excuses, and “ignorance is bliss” syndrome makes up for the rest.

We’re not interested in most of the people in the world because we haven’t met them or looked in their eyes. They don’t really exist to us. Statistics say that nearly seven billion people live on this blue marble, but more than likely, we only acknowledge the slightest fraction of them.

So when tragedy strikes the world we do acknowledge, say, for example, what happened on September 11 nearly ten years ago… our hearts and minds are troubled. Most Americans can tell you exactly where they were and what they were doing when they found out. People proclaimed that on that day everything changed, perhaps even worldwide.

But let’s add some perspective to that. 3,000 deaths on 9/11 was a tragedy.

10,000 Africans die every single day from malaria, TB, and AIDS. And they’ve been dying on that scale for years before and since 9/11.

Most of that number is children, and it equates to something like a Holocaust every year on just that continent.

Are we suddenly stricken with grief after reading that? Will we remember for the next decade exactly where we were on the day we found out? Should we say, “4/26… Never Forget” and “4/27… Never Forget” and so on and on for the rest of our lives?

Or is it such an unbelievable truth that it has no effect?

It’s staggering. It’s unimaginable. It’s incomprehensible. And it is the black mark on humanity that history and God may judge us for someday. Why? Because for the first time in history, the wealth of the Earth is great enough and the opportunity available to nearly eradicate poverty traps.

Yet the world commits the greatest sin of witchcraft ever known by casting a spell of invisibility over millions of people. It’s the same for the modern day sex trade and slavery rings.

At this point in my rant, you may be in one of a couple camps.

1. Perhaps you’re a sympathizer and you’re looking for a way to help. Me too. Let’s find a way to get involved. I’ve got some ideas that I’m working on, which I hope to reveal to the world shortly. If you’re a Christian, pick up a book by Mother Teresa or perhaps Heidi Baker’s Compelled by Love. Money alone can’t save the world, but the love-of-God-in-action combines all kinds of provision to meet needs through compassion… and it could save the world. Don’t just pity. Get compassion.

2. Maybe you’re a cynic, who believes these things are inevitable and we couldn’t stop them even if we wanted to (…corrupt governments steal financial aid, Africa is a black-hole of immorality, they wouldn’t be poor if they would work harder, etc. …) To you, I advise reading The End of Poverty. It’s filled with economics and numbers and graphs… so it’s not an easy read. Neither is it a book that I completely agree with. But even if you aren’t convinced of his greatest claim (that extreme poverty could be ended in less than twenty years if the world tried hard enough), it makes a substantial and feasible case that it is very possible to severely damage extreme poverty on Earth and save millions of lives at the same time as stabilizing population growth through accountable foreign aid, infrastructure, and education.

And believe it or not, it wouldn’t have to inconvenience the rich world very much and just might make your country safer (after all, terrorism thrives in extremely poor and unstable nations).

3. Possibly, you just don’t care. I doubt you’re this person though, because if you were, I don’t think you would have read this far. If you are, though, I encourage you to read about the next group.

4. You’re in extreme poverty, and you wish someone would help you get out of it. Most likely you’re not reading this because your village doesn’t have a cell phone or internet, and you can’t read your own language let alone English. The land your family owns is so depleted that it produces hardly enough for you and your children to live on, let alone to take to market and sell it. You don’t have clean drinking water or any kind of sanitation, though a filtration system for your village would cost about as much as a popular video game system.

You don’t have a clinic in your village, so any illness at all could be a death sentence or enough to cripple you and destroy your only means of working your land to provide for your family. You only have enough money to send one of your five children to school. Even then, the chances of survival for that child are 50/50 and the money spent to send him to school might end up having been a waste. A drought could mean the difference between enough food to survive and the slow death of a third or more of your village.

I hope some members of groups 2 and 3 just switched to group 1.

Earlier, I said my thoughts had been about physical and spiritual poverty. When we, as Christians or as a human race, don’t attempt to help our neighborhood out of physical poverty, I’m convinced that we ourselves have slipped into spiritual poverty.

I don’t mean to sound so negative or to condemn anyone for their actions (or lack thereof). I’m bringing all this up to say this: Let’s fall in love with our neighbors. We can’t help everyone, but we can each learn to have compassion on someone, somewhere. We can give, we can raise awareness, we can act, and we can pray.